Congrats, you’re engaged! Now, what?
You said yes! 💍 Congratulations on your engagement — what an exciting time! Between the bubbly toasts, happy tears, and showing off your new ring, you might be wondering… where do I even start with wedding planning?
At Aisle Studio, a modern Kansas City bridal boutique, we’ve helped countless newly engaged brides start their wedding journey with confidence (and a little sparkle). Here’s your step-by-step guide to what to do first (and why this order matters when planning your dream Kansas City wedding).
Step 1: Pick a Date and Secure Your Kansas City Wedding Venue
Your wedding date and venue are the foundation for everything else from your vendors to your dress timeline.
How to choose your wedding date:
Think about the Kansas City seasons. Do you love the idea of a spring wedding at a local garden venue or a cozy fall celebration surrounded by golden leaves?
Check local events. Kansas City is full of concerts, festivals, and Chiefs games — be mindful of big weekends that could affect hotel availability and traffic.
Be flexible if possible. Off-peak dates often mean more venue options (and potential savings!).
Popular Kansas City wedding venues to consider:
Melrose Abbey
The Brim
Loews Kansas City
The Guild
White Iron Ridge
💡 Why this step matters: Once your date and venue are set, you’ll know your wedding style and season, two key details your bridal stylist will need when helping you find your perfect gown.
Step 2: Hire a Kansas City Wedding Planner
Next, it’s time to bring in a planner who knows Kansas City’s best wedding vendors inside and out. Even if you’re super organized, a professional planner can make the process smoother and more fun.
Tips for choosing the right planner:
Ask about experience with your venue type — downtown ballroom, rustic barn, or chic outdoor space.
Look for someone who understands your vision (and your vibe).
Read reviews and ask for referrals — Kansas City has some incredible wedding planners who can bring your Pinterest board to life.
A few local Kansas City planners brides love:
Weddings by Paityn
Blue Magnolia Weddings
Events by Elle
Nellie Sparkman Events
Quinntessential Events
💡 Why this step matters: A planner helps coordinate your dress shopping timeline, keeping your appointments and alterations on track so you can enjoy every moment without the stress.
Step 3: Book Your Kansas City Bridal Appointment at Aisle Studio
Now for the most exciting part-finding the dress! Once you’ve secured your date and venue, it’s time to book your bridal appointment at Aisle Studio, Kansas City’s destination for modern, stylish brides.
Why timing is important:
Most wedding gowns take 6–9 months to arrive, plus time for alterations. Booking early ensures access to the full range of designer options and avoids rush fees.
How to prepare for your bridal appointment:
Share your venue and vision (your venue helps us tailor your style).
Know your budget — our stylists will curate options that fit your vision and comfort level.
Keep an open mind — Kansas City brides often find “the one” in a style they never expected!
At Aisle Studio, we offer a personalized bridal experience designed to make you feel seen, celebrated, and confident. Whether your wedding is downtown KC or a romantic countryside affair, we’ll help you find a gown that feels uniquely you.
💡 Why this step matters: Your dress sets the tone for your entire wedding - from your bridesmaids’ looks to your décor aesthetic. That’s why your bridal appointment is one of the most exciting and meaningful steps early in your planning journey.
Final Thoughts from Aisle Studio
Getting engaged is such a magical time and starting your wedding planning doesn’t have to be overwhelming. By following these three steps in order, you’ll set yourself up for an stress-free, joy-filled path to “I do.”
When you’re ready to start wedding dress shopping in Kansas City, book your bridal appointment at Aisle Studio. We can’t wait to celebrate your engagement and help you find the gown that makes your heart skip a beat. 🤍
📍 Aisle Studio — Kansas City Bridal Boutique
Located in the heart of Kansas City, Aisle Studio offers a curated collection of designer wedding gowns for modern, confident brides.
👉 Book your bridal appointment now and start your dress shopping journey with us!